Okunokukhethwa kuko, wokuqhawula umtshato: isondlo unyana ubudala, ukuya kwi-xa

Phezulu ukuze ubudala abazali bamele zahlukane okanye divorced kwaye kufuneka ahlawule imali yesondlo, ukuba abantwana sele magiorenniAbantwana, nkqu emva kokuba kufuneka ufikelele kwiminyaka yobudala kufuneka zigcinwe bade khona mna-sufficiency. I-ulondolozo lwe omdala abantwana ngu kuchazwe njalo kumgaqo-Siseko, apho uchaza ukuba bobabini abazali kuba obligation ukugcina, instruct kwaye educate abantwana kwi indawo ekuyo into yabo ingeniso kwaye nako ukusebenza. Umgwebi, ngaphezu koko, usenokuba ngokubhekiselele i-omdala abantwana akunjalo, kodwa mna-ukutya intlawulo a cheque periodical kwi yinxalenye abazali. Oku isondlo ngu kwafuneka njengoko ixesha elide njengoko kuyimfuneko, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo kuba wakho wonke ubomi. Umthetho umisela ukuba omdala abantwana kufuneka anike kuba satisfaction zonke nkosi, ukutya, impahla, imfundo, kodwa kanjalo leisure kwaye iiholide. Isixa-mali yesondlo ye-omdala abantwana esekelwe uthotho ezahlukanayo: ukusuka ixesha ukuze abe spends kunye nganye abazali ukuba isixa-mali kwezoqoqosho zokusebenza kabawo kwaye umama. Ngesiqhelo, nangona kunjalo, njengoko boy uba ngakumbi elizimeleyo, imali evunyelweyo kwi yinxalenye abazali baya kuba ngaphantsi costly. Ukuba umntwana neenkqubo zomthetho ubudala babo, endlwini seeveki ezimbini abazali, yokugqibela babe ibango ukusuka kwenye i-isondlo. Kodwa njengoko ixesha elide njengokuba kubhaliwe iyagcinwa ukuba unyana ka-isemthethweni ubudala Abazali, nkqu kwimeko okunokukhethwa kuko okanye wokuqhawula umtshato, iza kuqhubeka ukuhlawulela isondlo abantwana, nkqu xa kufuneka ufikelele kwiminyaka yobudala, khangela ukuba babe tshintsha ekuhambeni le minyaka, kodwa kanjalo kuba cwangcisa kwakhona kwi qanda. I-isondlo linegunya kuba bobabini abazali de boys ayisayi kuba autonomous ukususela kwezoqoqosho incopho ka-imboniselo.

Uza kuba ukuqhubeka ukugcina abantwana nkqu ukuba, endaweni ukufumana umsebenzi iza kuqhubeka zabo uphando eseyinkwenkwe ubudala, asiyiyo obliged ukufumana umsebenzi ukugcina, kodwa emva eliphezulu esikolweni babe kanjalo malunga abekho ngezifundo. Ke ngoko, isondlo yomntwana neenkqubo zomthetho ubudala ayikho ngokusekelwe ixesha kodwa ngaphezulu kwi iimeko Nibe yima ukugcina umntwana ubudala xa umsebenzi wakhe uza kuba iityuwadefault colour kwaye conform yalo umthamo. The end of the isondlo, ngoko ke, kuya kuba dictated yi-sebenzisa occasional, ukusuka kwelinye precarious The end of the isondlo imali evunyelweyo ukuba unyana wakhe (ubudala, yi-ngumzali divorced okanye zahlukane, kungenziwa xa boy uza kukwazi ukugcina ngokwabo imibulelo umsebenzi ukuba iyakuvumela ukuba kuye ukuba abe elizimeleyo economically.

I-umzali, nangona kunjalo, ingaba yima susa ukukhangela umntwana wakho ufumana ubudala, nkqu xa uyayiqonda into yokuba lo mfana sele wala systematically ukuze ikwazi ukuqhubeka uhlala kwiziko iindleko ezinokufumaneka kwabazali babo. Ukuba emva ukuduka ye-isondlo umntwana kufuneka wawulahla umphefumlo wakhe umsebenzi abazali asingawo kufuneka uqalele kweenkonzo i-cheque.