Yintoni iindleko ukuthatha umntwana kwi-Italy
Ingaba amashumi amawaka isi-Italian iintsapho okwangoku akukho nto na ukuthatha umntwana, kunye kwi-Italy kwaye ngaphesheya."Abaninzi couples embark kwi ezimeleneyo indlela yesizwe kwaye ngamazwe, ngoko ke, ubomi ukukhetha kuba nabo,"sichaza Daniela guido Bertolaso ka-i-association of turincity in italy Abahlobo Musa Bosco, omnye nee-arhente wagunyazisa ukuxhasa couples kwi-indlela ngamazwe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho -Kwaye isi-Italian iintsapho ikholisa kakhulu ethandwa kakhulu ngaphesheya, ngenxa yokuba ezicingelwa phakathi uninzi nabafana kwi-elililo."Oko ukwenza na ukuthatha umntwana Abo inqwenelela na ukuthatha umntwana kwi-Italy kufuneka thatha precise indlela. Umbuzo ngomhla juvenile inkundla linalo igunya kuba yokuhlala idilesi. Idla kufuneka qhoboshela amanye amaxwebhu (iziqinisekiso zonyango, ulwaphulo-mthetho iingxelo ye-zicelo, ingeniso ingxelo, payroll, isibhengezo ka-ukuvunywa umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho kwi yinxalenye"elizayo adoptive oomawomkhulu"), kodwa amaxwebhu afunekayo iyaguquguquka ukusuka kwinkundla inkundla. Akufumana isicelo, umgwebi juvenile khangela, kwaye, xa kufanelekile - ezimbalwa ezilungele, thumela amaxwebhu yobulali loluntu iinkonzo. Ukuzothi ga, loluntu abasebenzi ubambe uthotho iintlanganiso ukufumana ukwazi ezimbalwa kwaye ukuhlola zabo enokwenzeka kuyo parenting, nkqu ngokusebenzisa zonyango uphando kwaye psychological, ukongeza i-uphando ngo-wonke ukhuseleko amacandelo karhulumente. Emva kokuba ulwenzile yesebe eqokelelweyo ezifunekayo ulwazi, ezentlalo-ntle abasebenzi baya uthumelo yayo ingxelo juvenile inkundla, apho sele iinyanga ezimbini emva kwexesha ukuba ukhuphe (okanye hayi) ummiselo wonyaka suitability kuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho. I-linda Ukuba ezimbalwa lithatyathwa ezilungele, kubalulekile ibandakanywe uluhlu, kwaye kuya kufuneka ulinde kunye umntwana lowo wenziwe wavakalisa adoptable yi-juvenile inkundla. Emva kokuba ixesha apho ezimbalwa kwaye umntwana begin ukufumana ukwazi ngamnye enye, uqalisa ukubhala ebizwa-entrustment phambi kokuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, kunye ixesha ubuncinane iinyanga ezilishumi elinesibini. Ekupheleni, emva budlelwane loluntu iinkonzo umgwebi juvenile kwimimandla ephantsi kolawulo lwesixeko, domestic umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho uba zokugqibela. Ngamazwe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, oko kuya tshintsha. Kwimeko ngamazwe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, xa ezimbalwa wenziwe wavakalisa eligible kunye ngonyaka ixesha khetha compulsorily omnye nee-arhente wagunyazisa yikomishoni kuba ngamazwe adoptions. Le ingakumbi ka-ndawo, iimbumbano kwaye non-inzuzo umbutho ebhalisiweyo eyiyo irejista, abo bathe umsebenzi ka-assisting i-amaqabane abo ubudlelwane i-lokuzalwa umntwana, ukuba ifomu iipere kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukunceda iintsapho ixesha ukulandela umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho."Ukuxhasa i-umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho yi ifekta apho ndicinga kakhulu ebalulekileyo kwi-ukukhetha iqumrhu wagunyazisa ukuba izimvo ukuba Bertolaso - ngenxa yokuba kusenokuba nzima ukufumana ngaphandle kubhekiswa kwi-isiphelo indlela ka-umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho."Xa ukhethe yafumanisa ukuba umntwana, zilungiselelwe kuba iintlanganiso okufunda kwi-lokuzalwa umntwana, ekupheleni nto kuwo a uxwebhu ukuba sebenzela isi-Italian Ikhomishini yokulingana ngamazwe adoptions ukuba kugunyazisa ingeniso kwi kwaye uhlale kwi-Italy ye-yamkelwa umntwana. Xa baby sele engene lethu, kubalulekile ngokuqinisekileyo i-Italian ummi kwaye i-ngobuchule ilungu elitsha usapho. Yintoni iimfuno na ukuthatha umntwana I-Italian imigaqo kulo mba bayimisa ukuba banako ukuthatha umntwana kuphela heterosexual couples waza watshata. Kukho, ngalo mzuzu, malunga nenkqubo yolawulo olumanyanisiweyo imfuza ka abe yi-kanye abazali okanye cohabiting. I-aspiring adoptive abazali, balaseleyo, kufuneka watshata kuba ubuncinane iminyaka emithathu, okanye, ukuba umtshato wenziwe ndagqiba ngakumbi kutshanje, ekubeni waphila okokoko kuba ubuncinane iminyaka emithathu phambi umtshato.
I-lokulinda umphinda-phinde ngo na ukuthatha umntwana
Ukongeza koku, kukho ubudala imida abo kufuneka kugqitywe na ukuthatha umntwana: youngest ilungu ezimbalwa kufuneka ube ubudala umahluko ingabi ngaphantsi ishumi elinesibhozo, hayi phezu amane anesihlanu eminyaka, kuthelekiswa yakhe adoptive unyana. Kukho nayiphi na ukukhutshelwa ukuba benu abancinane omnye uva intlungu ukusuka abanye sifo, ukuba amaqabane kuba abantwana (wendalo okanye adoptive), apho ubuncinane omnye encinci umntwana, ukuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho sichaphazela umzalwana okanye udade yomntwana sele yamkelwa libhunga efanayo ezimbalwa, okanye xa ufuna anomdla ngexesha elinye, ngakumbi abakhuluwa, ngaye, ubuncinane omnye sele i age ukuba ziphantsi ngaphakathi kwemida yomthetho. Kweminyaka umntwana ukhetha ukuthatha unako kuchaphazela ixesha eliqhubekekayo inkqubo, ukwandisa okanye esi ixesha lokulinda."Ezinye iipere ukuze sibe abalandela kwi-umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho abantwana abazelwe kwi-Persia kuba kulindeleke embalwa kuphela iinyanga, ngenxa yokuba kufuneka kugqitywe na ukuthatha umntwana ukuba waba ngaphezu ezintandathu ubudala,"athi.
Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka na ukuthatha umntwana a zimbalwa zidlulileyo, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba udibanisa ababonisi base abazali musa zingaphezu kweminyaka imida emiselwe ngumthetho, kwaye ukuba inkundla iye kwesi sithuba kokuba ixesha ibhengeza umntwana adoptable (kanjalo kwimeko abantwana"olahliweyo"esibhedlele).
Iindleko kuba abazali umntwana ingaba highly umahluko."Kwimeko domestic umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho iindleko ingaba ngezantsi,"sichaza Abo - ngenxa ngenxa yokuba lelona collectivity, ukuba unoxanduva ye-bechitha kufuneka inkxaso umntwana kude kube ngu-wavakalisa adoptable, kwaye ngenxa yokuba inkqubo akusebenzi involve private abantu."Izinto utshintsho kwimeko i-ngamazwe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, ngenxa yokuba kukho ubungqina i-inkcitho enxulumene association okanye ezinye private qumrhu ukuba accompanies abazali kwi uhambo lwabo. Iindleko kwi-eziliqela amabini euros, kodwa zahluke kwi elinovakalelo indlela."Njengoko kuyo yonke imihlaba ye - idibanisa Daniela Bertolaso - kukho abantu abo ukuzama kulinganiselwa iindleko ophilayo, kwaye abanye abo speculate kwi intended abazali, ukuba kukho buthathaka yinxalenye yonke inkqubo". I-phinde ukuba elapse evela xa i-ezimbalwa ngu wavakalisa ezilungele kuba xa umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho ngokwenene iyakwamkela umntwana kwi-usapho zahluke considerably, kuxhomekeke ukufumaneka kwencwadi pair ngokumayela kweminyaka ye-yamkelwa umntwana okanye abazali ezininzi abantwana bakokwenu okanye umntwana kunye impilo iingxaki."I-avareji ukulinda ixesha jikelele ezimbini kunye necala eminyaka ukususela kwixesha senziwe isibhengezo ka-suitability", laququmbela njalo guido Bertolaso, kwaye idla stretches kwaye ukuba kwi-usapho sele kukho a biological umntwana, ngenxa kule meko umthetho ufuna precautions ingaba ngakumbi ukukhusela kwabo". Umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho e a umgama Ukuthatha umntwana ukusuka umgama yi oyikhethileyo ngokupheleleyo ezahlukeneyo, enikezela - idla ngokusebenzisa i-association ne-Italian okanye ngamazwe - nge-mali inkxaso eqhubekayo ngexesha) umntwana abo omzimba wabeka kwimeko i-biological usapho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, benefactor ufumana rhoqo uhlaziyo kwi ubume impilo yabantwana, ngomhla wakhe yakhe nenkululeko inkqubela, kwi kunokwenzeka inclusion, xa zigqityiwe indlela wemfundo, ehlabathini umsebenzi.
Nawuphi na kunjalo, kukho kanjalo malunga nenkqubo yolawulo olumanyanisiweyo imfuza ukuba angakudlakathisi ngokwasemzimbeni kuhlangana umntwana, soloko bephethe khumbula ukuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho e a umgama ayikho ebhekisa kunika umntwana usapho, nto leyo ngokuqhelekileyo sele ekho, kodwa ukuyixhasa kwaye inkxaso kwi i-kwezoqoqosho incopho ka-imboniselo.
